Love ain't nothing if it ain't foolish.
--Old French Proverb
Trust the French, notorious for the art of romance, to come up with some rather corny love advice. But they're right. Love makes us do really stupid things. And those stupid things remind us that when we love, we are all in. There isn't a player (or a lover) who can claim to have his or her head in the game, if they aren't willing to take risks. The risks that will make them look like a hero or a fool. And then, keep taking those risks until they win.
That's love. Forget the game plan, just go for it!